Singapore
新加坡
Last week received a call from a student’s parent, one of my students chose a path of no return due to depression.
上周接到一位学生家长的电话,我的一个学生因为忧郁症选择了一条不归路。
Too shocked, still very young and in his early 20s.
太震惊,还很年轻才20出头。
When I rushed to the hospital, what reflected in my eyes was a unresponsive dead body.
赶到医院时,映入眼帘的已是一具没了反应的尸体。
Eyes could not help burst into tears.
眼泪也不由自主的夺眶而出。
I treat every student like my own child.
我把每一个学生当自己的孩子。
Taught him for ten years.
教了他整十个年头。
He was one of the few students who was very close to me.
他是几个少数跟我很亲的学生。
From a mischievous lad to a mature young guy; the biggest transformation was to see him became more grateful.
从一个“大炮仙”的小毛头,到一个成熟的年轻小伙;间中看到他最大的蜕变就是懂得感恩。
He was also the only student who had travelled abroad with me.
他也是至今唯一一个跟过我出国旅行的学生。
What impressed me the most was the dinner he invited me to during the trip; he asked to give him a chance to thank me for teaching him over the years.
印象最深刻的是他在旅途中请我吃的晚餐;他要求让他有机会感谢我这些年对他的教诲。
I remembered when he said that he treated me as an uncle/parent figure, really felt the meaning of teaching and the pride of being a teacher.
记得当时他说把我当叔叔/父辈看待,真心的感觉到教书的意义以及身为老师的骄傲。
Every time I saw him, he appeared cheerful but did not expect that there was a terrible depression hidden behind that smile.
每次看到他都是个开朗的样子,没想到那笑容背后隐藏着可怕的忧郁症。
Everyone’s life journey is different with glory or shame.
每个人的人生旅途因荣耀或耻辱而不同。
But when the end comes before you, you have to stop; no matter how beautiful the scenery is, you cannot hold on to anything because everything just returns to nil.
但当终点来到眼前时,就要停步;尽管风光再美好,也不能依恋万事都成空。
Now that he has completed his short life journey, hope that he will become a happy angel in the pure land without pain.
如今他也完成了他人生的短暂旅途,希望他到一个没有痛苦的净土化为快乐的天使。
P/S: If you find anyone with suicidal intention, advise them to call the SOS counseling hotline 18002214444.
注:大炮仙(福建话)爱讲大话。若发现有人觉得生无可恋,建议他们拨打SOS辅导热线18002214444。